Dad has now been at the Pine Ridge Care Center for over a month now and is beginning to adjust to a new routine, which can be very difficult for dementia patients. Shelley and I try to visit Dad three to four times a week and Tabitha does the same depending on her schedule.
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| Dad & Shelley during one of our visits. |
When we visit, we make it a point to go around different meal times to help him make the most of his dining experience. When his food is brought to him, the dishes, cups, and glasses are covered to keep the contents warm. However, Dad is at a point in his dementia progression where he will not uncover his food automatically. He is not always sure how to lift a cover to get to his food so he'll skip a meal. Sometimes he is even confused about when to use a fork versus a spoon. So, when we are there we make sure all his food is uncovered and, if necessary, we cut his food into bite-size pieces. (We continually provide "feedback" to the staff so they can help him at the times when we are not there.)
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| He eventually ate everything and he has had a shave since this photo. |
Yesterday, Saturday evening, we visited Dad along with Bruce and Bonnie. Dad was very happy to see us all, and he gets very emotional and weeps often.
During past visits with Dad we've called his brother Joe and his daughter Joyce so he could speak to them for a few minutes. Let me know if any of you would like to make similar arrangements.
Dad's latest story that he repeats quite often to all his fellow residents and care-givers, is about the courtyard slab (floor). As most of you know, Dad is a retired cement mason. So whenever he has the opportunity he will tell others how he finished the courtyard slab. He says it took him about a day to finished with no help. Most people play along and others just give him a quizzical look. Here's a photo of Dad pointing to "his work."
Well that's my update for May. I'll post another in June when Dad reaches 83.
